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Relationship Conflict Assessment

Conflict Assessment in Romantic Relationships

To what extent does your romantic relationship have unhealthy conflict management styles? Find out now.

You understand that this quiz is not a diagnostic tool and does not provide medical or psychological treatment. This quiz is for educational purposes only.

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My partner and I just can’t take a joke.

Select true if the above statement is true for either you, your partner or both of you. Only select false if the statement is absent from your relationship.

2 / 28

We don’t acknowledge each others’ efforts.

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My partner and I leave the room when things get heated because the other person needs to feel bad for what they’ve said or done.

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My partner and I call each other names out of anger.

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5 / 28

Sometimes we choose not to respond to each other at all because whatever we say, it will be received the wrong way.

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6 / 28

My partner and I just act so childish sometimes.

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7 / 28

We’re not even sure if the other partner even likes us anymore.

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8 / 28

My partner and I feel we don’t deserve to be treated a certain way (badly) during fights.

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When my partner and I tell each other we’re upset by the others’ behavior, we respond by telling them how awful we feel instead.

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10 / 28

My partner and I act self-righteous when we perceive a mistake is made.

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11 / 28

We are quick to put down or devalue each other’s positions when sharing our perspectives.

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12 / 28

It seems like my partner and I ignore one another when we come to each other with a problem.

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13 / 28

My partner and I accuse one another of always messing up.

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14 / 28

My partner and I feel the other never makes attempts at changes we ask for.

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My partner and I correct everything the other does.

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16 / 28

My partner and I often have to leave the room or the conflict won’t end.

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When my partner and I complain, it is difficult to not bring up all the ways the other has contributed to the problem.

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18 / 28

During conflict, we grow apathetic (lose interest) towards what the other partner is saying.

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19 / 28

My partner and I often leave during the conflict, making each other feel unheard and rejected.

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20 / 28

My partner and I sometimes withdraw and distance from one another to not cause or continue a fight.

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My partner and I often ask each other why the other behaves the way they do, but we don’t get satisfying answers.

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My partner and I often have gridlocked opposing perspectives on how a fight occurred/what was said or done. We agree to disagree a lot.

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23 / 28

My partner and I have a habit of pointing out every flaw and mistake of one another.

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24 / 28

We feel that we try to work things out ‘logically’, but we often get the sense that the other partner gets too emotional during conflict.

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25 / 28

When my partner and I do or say something hurtful, we think of ways to get back at each other.

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26 / 28

My partner and I accuse each other of things that the other just doesn’t agree on.

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27 / 28

My partner and I often feel that we can’t help it if the other person gets upset. They just need to deal with it.

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When we try to explain our intentions, the other often feels misunderstood.

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