Securing Your Romantic Future

Do you find that you’re so in love but you’re scared to lose this wonderful partner? Maybe you’re a new couple who realize you’ve been in anxiety filled relationships and want to build something new and lasting? When you reflect, you realize that you were scared of someone getting too close to you so you pushed them away before they could? Or perhaps you’re on the other end and you found yourself testing relationships and just waiting for the other shoe to drop.

Have you ever wondered if you and your partner will ever be able to get out of this loop of insecurity? Well the answer is yes. 

Securing Your Romantic Future

This 8-week closed group course may be just the solution you’ve been seeking to help your relationship blossom into the joyous love you both deserve, through expert-guided couples therapy in Colorado Springs .

We meet weekly on Thursdays from 1.30 to 3 PM. An initial consultation with the couple is required. Price per couple: $60. For now, members meet via a HIPAA compliant telehealth platform and must reside in the state of Colorado.

INSECURE RELATIONSHIPS

“I know something bad will happen to us, I just don’t know when”
“I will be in this broken relationship no matter what because that is what love is”
“Do not talk to that person anymore, I don’t trust their intentions.”
“You’re suffocating me with your drama. You’re making a big deal out of nothing”

SECURE RELATIONSHIPS

“I know difficult things happen, but I’m sure we will work it out together”
“I will commit to getting help to work on us getting healthier”
“Their intentions leave me feeling insecure and I want to know that we are okay. I don’t need to trust people outside us, I trust you”
“I think a healthy time out could be good for us. Can I call you tomorrow”

Who Can Benefit

Our couples therapy in Colorado Springs caters to various couples’ needs. It welcomes new couples aiming to establish a solid foundation, those experiencing repetitive conflict cycles without understanding why, individuals seeking affordable help, and those grappling with identified insecure patterns, uncertain of their next steps.

What We Hope You Get Out Of This Group

Discover Your Childhood & Adult Attachment Styles: No longer are our attachment styles seen as permanent traits. Recent research in romantic relationships reveals that it’s feasible to identify how insecurities manifest in relationship patterns and—here’s the kicker—make adjustments to foster a more secure bond together. Our couples counseling in Colorado Springs provides a supportive environment to explore and improve these dynamics.

Re-define Conflict

Disagreements are inevitable, some may even argue, healthy aspects of our romantic relationships. Use our couples counseling in Colorado Springs to learn hands-on tools that you and your partner can use to leave conflicts not feeling threatened. How does that translate to real life? “Though we just had a big fight, I know we will resolve this and be great”. In short: secure.

Experience Authentic Trust & Intimacy

Yes, it is true that romantic relationships have stages and phases. Nowadays, most people are familiar with the idea that our neurotransmitters (our brains’ natural love drugs) are responsible for the mesmerization we call love; and that eventually, they fade. What is less talked about are the deliberate simple actions that can be taken to replenish these love drugs we crave so much, in order to build a healthy long-term relationship. Couples can experience true intimacy by learning how to love one another.

Knowledge is Key

Your therapy facilitator will give you easy-to-understand insight into the neurobiological processes that separate secure and insecure couples. An understanding of what exactly is going on in each of your brains when you fight, feel threatened and then act out can be the key to breaking these cycles and feeling joy when you think of the partnership you have both built.

Recognize You’re Not Alone

Berne Brown has done a wonderful job of sharing the message: “Vulnerability is strength”. There is something truly powerful about being in a small group of individuals with a shared goal. Building a solid group culture can provide inbuilt reinforcement, support and most of all, an increased sense of accountability to yourself and your partner.

Practical Tools

What makes this therapy experience stand out is that you will gain insight to all of these skills and more and get a chance to put them into action with live discussions, videos and activities for you to practice these skills in session every week. More so, your group facilitator is a Marriage & Family Therapist trained to help you grow at a pace that feels right for you.

Disagreements are inevitable, some may even argue, healthy aspects of our romantic relationships. Use our couples counseling in Colorado Springs to learn hands-on tools that you and your partner can use to leave conflicts not feeling threatened. How does that translate to real life? “Though we just had a big fight, I know we will resolve this and be great”. In short: secure.

Yes, it is true that romantic relationships have stages and phases. Nowadays, most people are familiar with the idea that our neurotransmitters (our brains’ natural love drugs) are responsible for the mesmerization we call love; and that eventually, they fade. What is less talked about are the deliberate simple actions that can be taken to replenish these love drugs we crave so much, in order to build a healthy long-term relationship. Couples can experience true intimacy by learning how to love one another.

Your therapy facilitator will give you easy-to-understand insight into the neurobiological processes that separate secure and insecure couples. An understanding of what exactly is going on in each of your brains when you fight, feel threatened and then act out can be the key to breaking these cycles and feeling joy when you think of the partnership you have both built.

Berne Brown has done a wonderful job of sharing the message: “Vulnerability is strength”. There is something truly powerful about being in a small group of individuals with a shared goal. Building a solid group culture can provide inbuilt reinforcement, support and most of all, an increased sense of accountability to yourself and your partner.

What makes this therapy experience stand out is that you will gain insight to all of these skills and more and get a chance to put them into action with live discussions, videos and activities for you to practice these skills in session every week. More so, your group facilitator is a Marriage & Family Therapist trained to help you grow at a pace that feels right for you.

Meet Your Facilitator

Recognizing the diverse and systemic challenges that clients face, we have adapted an eclectic approach to empower your exploration, healing, and growth.
Varsha Swamy

Varsha Swamy

Founder, Marriage and Family Therapist

Varsha Swamy – MS Applied Psychology and MS Marriage and Family Therapy- has a unique background that combines her dual master’s with a wide range of experiences from several parts of the United States and India. Varsha has spent the last 10 years working with individuals, couples and families across outpatient, private practice, organizational and workshop settings.

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